barmar, on 2015-March-10, 09:14, said:
It's hardly ever ignored in my experience. But I've learned over the years from these forums that there are apparently far fewer jerks playing bridge in New England than the rest of the world, because I rarely experience the kinds of annoying behavior everyone else says is commonplace.
Okay, "ignored" is too strong a term. Any implication of deliberate intent was unintended.
Habit is such that, after "please leave the auction out" [pass], at least half the time, at least one player has already scrunched up enough of their bidding cards as to lose at least one round of the auction. "Please leave the auction out" "Oh sorry." "Please *fix* the auction..." "sorry".
Of course there are also those who have the cards collected before I've passed, never mind requested that the auction stay out...
And those who say "why?" Or treat the request as a serious breach of normal procedure. Those are the same who, when asked to explain the auction, explain the one call they think I care about (if not ask what call I care about). "Continue, please" [explain the next bid] "Continue, please..."
It's not "jerk", it's lack of experience, lack of training, and frankly, lack of people who know enough to care about things like this. Most pairs either don't ask, or ask about every call at their next turn (by rote - they don't really understand what they're being told either). So the situation doesn't make sense to them.
Again, any implication that there is any malice involved is bad construction on my part. That doesn't make what happens any less annoying, though.
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The request generally only happens in complex auctions with lots of alerts. It should come as no surprise to anyone that we're going to have questions.
You'd think, wouldn't you? Seriously, it just doesn't happen often enough to them (as opposed to the ask at the call) for them to understand. And they *certainly* see no reason to explain without being asked.
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Also, the UI is only an issue if it's the partner of the opening leader who asks for them to be left out -- half the time it's the opening leader himself.
True. It only really bothers me when I'm in the passout seat, true.
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